|High school besties|
There's been a lot of interest in the powerful female characters, and so I've been thinking about
women lately, and particularly, empowering women, strong women, how women can be confident and resilient, how owning our sensuality is a mark of triumph over old-fashioned ideals held by a patriarchal society... and what really resonates with me is the idea of strong friendships. The thought that part of being a strong woman is to be a woman who lifts other people up, who helps, motivates, inspires, says kind things, practices kind acts.
I'm fortunate to still be really great mates with my high school besties. We all live in different states now but we are as close as ever. I have two sisters whom I adore, and a strong, awesome mum I really admire.
I have a lot of kind women in my life, and since I came into the RWA fold, and I've experienced some incredible acts of kindness too. Notably, after meeting Amy Andrews at the 2016 conference
|At the Harlequin party 2017 RWA conference|
and giving her some of my books, unbeknownst to me, she contacted her editor at Mills & Boon to rave about me. How nice is that? It was unqualified, selfless support and championing, and I will never forget her willingness to speak up for me when we barely knew one another.
Then, there are the LoveCats who invited me to be a part of this awesome blog, and who I have so enjoyed getting to know!
|Jillian Jones & me|
I joined our state romance writing group in January of last year and began to attend the monthly meetings. What a pleasure it's been to get to know these writers, women who sometimes share my passions and other times don't; to enjoy the lively conversations that centre around books we've read and loved, books we've hated, where our writing journey is at - and to share wisdom. We're all at different stages in our journey and the exchange of information is always lively and informative. We have our annual lunch tomorrow and I can't wait to see the gang!
|With my SARA sister Bronwyn|
I could go on and on, listing all the beautiful souls I've connected with through my writing (readers who are just the loveliest and most supportive group) , but the common theme is the giving of time and thought. Whether it's a small message to touch base on a problematic manuscript, a tweet shared, a review of a book - and beyond that, sharing recipes and laughing about children, all the small little irrelevancies that form the background of our lives.
What about you? Got any kind acts you can share? Something a friend has done for you or that you go out of your way to do for a friend?
What a beautiful post Clare and what fabulous friends you have I have my sisters three of them I also have three daughters whom I love and we are always there for each other and I have my Romance Reader friends we have lunch once a month and those lunch dates are always fun and my bestie who lives a few doors away and there are all of the fabulous authors that write the books that make me smile :)ReplyDelete
Getting together and talking about problems or most important just having someone to listen to you makes all the difference in the world
Hugs to you all
Deep and abiding friendships are part of the bedrock of my life as well. The past few years, as I struggled with my health, my daughters (who are two of my best friends), my dearest friends and sisters brought me some of my happiest moments. XXReplyDelete
Love this: "The thought that part of being a strong woman is to be a woman who lifts other people up, who helps, motivates, inspires, says kind things, practices kind acts."ReplyDelete
Great read. xoxo
A fabulous post from a fabulous woman. I’m so fortunate to have walked through the door to join the RWA newbie dinner at the same time as you in 2016. Thank you for being such a beautiful light in the romance writing community, and beyond. You inspire me to be more courageous, persistent and motivated xoxo.ReplyDelete